| Every man has his own ideas about dating and Christian men are no different. If you consider yourself a Christian man, you might be interested in some Christian dating advice for men.
As a Christian, your values are important to you. They may even influence who and how you date. Do not ever compromise your values for someone else. You have every right to believe the way you do and when you find someone you would like to date she should be respectful of your feelings and your beliefs.
If you find someone who you would like to date and she ever does anything to try to test your faith you may want to rethink your relationship. God tests us all throughout our lives and you could just see a situation like this as another test. He may have put this woman in your path to test your faith. Stand strong and do not ever compromise yourself for anyone.
One aspect of Christian dating advice for men is to always be upfront and truthful about your beliefs and how they influence you and your values. Obviously, you being a Christian really should be no big deal to anyone but, people have their opinions about what it means to be religious and also may have many preconceived notions about certain religions.
Do not ever let anyone pigeon-hole you into some stereotype. Just because you are a Christian, or part of any other religion for that matter, does not mean you are a religious fanatic who goes off the deep end when someone does something you do not believe in.
To minimize the possibility of being judged for who you are, you could find someone to date within the congregation of your church. Someone who attends the same church you do every Sunday will have the same morals and values you do. You will not have to try to make someone understand where you are coming from concerning why you believe the things you do because she will already have that understanding.
If there is no one who interests you within the congregation and you are looking elsewhere then stand firm in your belief and be proud of who you are. There may be many times where temptation crosses your path but if you are secure in your beliefs then you should be able to handle any situation that arises.
Be open enough that if the person you find to date is of another faith that you do not judge them and respect their beliefs as well. Take it as an opportunity to learn about another religion and maybe even expand your belief somewhat. No one needs to convert to another religion just be interested and listen when she is talking to you about her religion like she does when you talk about yours.
The last piece of Christian dating advice for men that I have is to check out your church's upcoming event calendar. Go to the singles get together and see if there is anyone that interests you. Finding another Christian to date is the best way to find someone with the same beliefs you already hold dear to your heart. |